ROVERS COMPLETE BY 11:59PM JULY 20
Count slowly, paying attention to each number as you say it, giving yourself space from the upsetting situation.
Use your 5 senses to notice what you see, hear, feel, taste, or smell. Bring all of your attention to what your senses notice.
Take a break from whatever you are doing. Walk away, letting others know you will be back. Once calm, go back to the situation to resume what you were doing.
Go to the gym, go for a run, shoot some hoops, or whatever your preferred exercise is. Burn off the energy that is being created by your distress.
Find someone that you trust and who is good at listening, and talk to them about your situation. Ask for advice only if you want their advice.
If you can, find humor in the situation. If there is no humor to be found, distract yourself with something funny until you feel better.
Write about your thoughts and feelings. Writing will activate a calming part of your brain, and it may feel good to get your thoughts and feelings out of your head. .
Slowly inhale, counting to 4 as you breathe in, pausing at the top for another 4 counts. Then, count to four as you exhale. Do this 10 times or until you feel calmer.
Stop what you are doing.
Take a breath.
Observe how you feel, what you are thinking, what is happening around you. Then,
Proceed.
Focus on something else for a while that is not upsetting. You could watch a TV show, listen to music, or do an activity you enjoy. After you are calmer, you can figure out how to deal with the situation that is making you upset.